How do I get my wife to go HOT???
I guess what I really want is what is called a hotwife. Not to boast, but I am pretty big down there, so this isn’t about me wanting to be embarrased, or that I can’t please my wife. I want to get my wife to fuck other guys while I watch. I have been married to my wife for 15 years. We have 2 kids and my wife is always the “mommy”, so our sex life is not as active or adventuristic as I would like it to be. She always thinks of the kids first–and I love her more for that. Don’t get me wrong–when we do have sex it is great. My wife is shy when it comes to sex-until she gets turned on. Then she can really get into it. When she does finally let go–hold on. She loves giving and recieving oral sex, and she does swallow. She has always said “you gotta lick it before you kick it”. I am the dominant one and she is the submissive.
I force her to do more than she would normally do on her own. We have great sex, and have done some experimentation. I have tied her up–slapped her tits, ass, and pussy till they are red. She really cumms hard after that. I have taken her to a hotel room and fucked her by the window with the blinds open where we might be seen. She was really embarrased about doing this at first–but after getting turned on she really liked it, even though she was still a little leary about it. Since then we have also fucked by the window in all the hotels we go to and in 3 different houses we have had, and one of them was on a very busy street where people walked by all the time. We have fantisized out loud during sex about people in the room watching her from outside–and even in the room. I make her tell me about them and what they are seeing.
We have even gone to the point where I have told her to pick out which one she would fuck and she has cumm hard. When we go out alone to dinner for a special occasion, I have told her to pick out the one she would want to suck and fuck. Usually she doesn’t want to do that, and I think it is because she is in her “shy mode”, but eventually she does. I have even gone over to talk to them. Just told my wife I’d be right back, and gone over. I have not talked to them about fucking my wife, but she didn’t know that at the time, and to see the look on her face when I got up to go over there was great. She looked embarrased and aprehensive and excited all at the same time. When we get back to the room she loves it when we pretend.
I am the “experimenter” and she is just happy as long as she cumms a few times. For me it has always been about the mental stimultion as well as the physical. I like to set things up and suprise her. I would love to see her fuck another guy or guys. Maybe it is because it is something that I know, and she knows, she is “not supposed to do”. I think it would be a great turn on for her and for me. I know from our past experiences she would enjoy being watched, –so why not by me? She seems pretty adiment about no doing it for real, and when I bring it up she wonders what is going on in my head. Am I the only one out here that is like this and how do we get to the next step? I would love to see it–but would never sacrifice my marrage for it.
